Keeping our head... (while all those around us are
losing theirs!)
Lately there seems to be a lot of panic-inducing
concepts making headlines. In the vein that 'every
little bit counts,' here's some ways I use all the time that
you can use, too, to bring calm and
sanity back into your life, and by extension, back into the
world. (btw - I'm also a big fan
of the '100th monkey!')
- The Centered Riding Shakeout is great for getting
rid of 'big emotions.' Really. This is
actually a trauma release. If you've ever gone
winging off a horse or skid a car off the road, the
thing to do is allow your body to have its moment and
shake uncontrollably. If you let it pass, it will
pass like a Spring storm taking all the gunk with it and leave you refreshed and
able to move forward. Whatever happened will not
get stuck in your body or psyche and cause
trauma. If you couldn't do it then, you can still
do it now. For big things and small, go
ahead and shake it out! (I do this before shows and
it works wonders. Sally recommended doing this
before every ride just to shake off the day and get your
body loose and ready for riding.)
- Balance your
head and you will automatically get rid of
fight-flight. This means your brain can think
clearer and you can hear it's solutions clearer and you
can then respond appropriately to the situation you're
actually in, not the one you're afraid you might get
into. And almost always, taking appropriate action
now allows you to avoid the imagined situation
later. We cannot 'hear' the right side off our
brain think which makes it a leap of faith that this is
happening, but it can't think if we get into a loop of
negative thinking about an imagined situation, so we do
know anytime we're into the negative chatter, we're
spinning our wheels. If we balance our head, the
negative chatter will cease and the full resources of
our brain can come 'online' and create a solution.
This solution will then 'appear' to you fully
formed. (You've heard about this with various
inventors - and now you can be one, too!)
This is an
unobtrusive way to get rid of panic (unlike
shaking...) which may take some self-monitoring.
As soon as you realize you've indulged in the negative
chatter, just give your head a little nod to
re-establish the calm place.
- The Sedona Method is also a lovely way to allow a
'big emotion' to have its day in court and be
done. The Sedona Method is based on some questions
you ask yourself. The idea is to FEEL the emotion,
not indulge in it. If you're feeling anger, you
want to feel anger - maybe your face gets red, your head
feels like it's going to explode, everything feels tight
and intense. This is different than indulging your
anger with visions of retribution, fighting, or
violence. Indulging your anger will only
perpetuate your feelings of anger and ramp it up, not
dissipate it. Allowing your body to FEEL the anger
will allow it to pass. (Yes - this can get a
little uncomfy, so you don't have to feel it all at
once.) Panic can also be uncomfortable. It
can feel like everything is racing, like there's not
enough air. In the Sedona method, you ask yourself
these questions:
- Could I feel <name the emotion>?
(answer either yes or no.)
- Would I feel <name the emotion>?
(answer either yes or no.)
- When would I do that? (for
instance: now, tonight, next week, never...)
I have an
example using resistance online which you can modify
using 'panic.'
- Reiki is similar to The Sedona Method but without
words.
- Tapping is a self-help modality that also works
wonders.
- Phase 7 Ortho-Bionomy is, very often, ridiculously
quick. I have an
example using resistance online - scroll to the pink
pictures, which can used substituting in 'panic.'
Basically - go to the place in your field where you feel
the least amount of panic. Stay there for a little
bit - usually under a minute - then travel around in
your field and see how it feels.
Of course, there're other ways to find calm!
And if we're all in a place of calm, then maybe we can tip
the world scales into that place, too.
I'll be exploring some of these in a mini-clinic/workshop
next month on May 12th.
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