The start of a conversation
It seems to me that Mia Morning Glory is still
banking on the fearful
card to duck out of things, so, today being
drizzly, I decided it would be a good time for round
pen work. (although, I now have a square pen
....)
You may remember me mentioning before,
the first order of business with Mia was to get her
OFF of me. This was an important but missing
part in her concept of horse-human relations.
Today I decided to see if we could get a little
better about what OFF means. It doesn't mean
the other side of the field. Not really.
To give her some leeway, my life has been crazy
and I've not done much with her except feed her and
let her figure out how to fit in with the rest of
the crew in a natural setting. And for
the most part, this is plenty. But there are
times where I'd like to have a more subtle
conversation. Like when I open the stall
door and wave my fingers for her to go in, I'd
appreciate her going in -- rather than wheeling and
running off to pester a different horse. When
I wave my fingers a certain way, the rest of the
crew understand I really do mean, 'that way is
open.' If I back up, I really do mean,
'advance this way.' If I put up my hand, it
really does mean 'this way is closed.'
These are very basic communications.
Go. Stop. Turn.
Of the ways of approaching horses, I've found
that working with a horse loose inside a pen is very
useful for clarifying this commands. One of the
benefits - there's no equipment! It's me and
the horse and maybe a lunge whip or a lead line to
twirl. Another benefit, there is an added
nuance to these communications when the horse is
loose but contained which is not accessible when the
horse is on the lead line, lunge line, or long
reins. Some folks talk about how the horse is
more free to cooperate. With a line, there is
that last little bit of power-over that prevents
establishing the herd dynamics in the horse's mind.
With a line, perhaps they are always thinking, 'just
take that line off and we'll see what happens....'
OK - so I don't know why, but it does seem to be a
thing. If you can control them without
touching them, they seem to be a bit more impressed.
So into the pen we go.
Then what?
Usually you start with 'go.' 'I made you
move.'
With Mia, some of her actions I interpret as
'Someone else tried this one and I convinced them it
was a bad idea by behaving stupidly.' This
looks a lot like a horse bolting away from a cougar
about to spring. And it's pretty
impressive. Except Mia also has some feet
things going on, so her flinging herself around a
muddy pen isn't a really good idea. And
you know it's an act because she stops just outside
of where she thinks I can reach, puts her head down,
and pretends to eat. Which is
'the wrong response' and can only ever be countered
with me saying 'GO.' So there's that. Only
we're starting out with this (somewhat common)
pattern of there are only two gears: 'run like a bat
of hell' and 'stop, grow roots to China'
complicated by 'run like a bat of hell' is probably
a really bad idea for her feet. When a horse wants
to go too fast, there are two options. One
option is to say, 'OK, faster' coupled with 'I said
Go, you can't stop' (timed to make sure they don't
manage the stop) with a little bit of 'you can go
slower (if you're smart enough to interact with
me.)' But the downside of that is they might
go really fast. The other, the option I chose, was
to make her 'GO' but then immediately 'change my
mind' and say 'STOP.' The idea is that I
tell her to STOP right away. Now, if she
stops, she's actually complying with my wishes for
her to stop. AND she never really picks up too
much steam. When she goes I can coo 'gooooddd
gggiirrrrrrl' and then very quickly ask for the stop
and coo again when she's stopped. This
is a very (very) simple form of green light/red
light, and it's not very sophisticated. And it
was also pretty quickly
covered. The next step is
usually to play with fast/faster/slow/slower/almost
stop go/etc. The horse keeps moving in one
direction and my proximity and intention are used to
move her along -- similar to how other horses would
move a horse along. I get close and big
and solid and it's time to move. I move away,
become nebulous and wispy and it's ok to slow
down. This works quite well when there's no
worry about what happens if the horse gets too
fast. But because of her feet, I kind
of went gingerly to avoid any miscommunications and
her doing the 'bat out of hell' thing and moved
right into the 'turn inward' concept. This is
accomplished by stopping the horse, stepping back to
pull her in towards me, and then (energetically)
stepping into the wedge between the horse and the
pen to push it away and in the other direction.
To begin with, there's a bit of arm waving,
sometimes the use of the lead line twirling for emphasis,
and a bit of walking to get into the correct places
so that Mia understood 'Yeah, I mean it.'
Eventually, this all calmed down a lot. Can I wave
my fingers and she'll walk where I've asked?
no. not yet. We did cover 'go,' 'stop,'
'turn in,' and 'reverse direction.' And
she came up to me when I asked her to. That's
plenty for the day. We got a lot of ground
covered that leads up to the subtle finger
wave. It's the start.
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